It’s complicated…why do they even have that option on Facebook. I mean either get rid of “in a relationship” or “its complicated” because we all know that they are one and the same thing.
Who has been in a relationship that wasn’t complicated?? I think that is the unofficial definition of a relationship. ” a mutual agreement between two members of the opposite sex to make each others lives complicated for an indefinite period of time.” If not, it should be.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that they are difficult all the time, but there is definitely a lot of drama at some points along the way.
For instance, starting a relationship….nowadays it’s like trying to kick start a car on a flat road by yourself. No hill in sight!!
Back in the day everything was much simpler. I like you and you like me and that was it! Now everybody wants to play games it seems. Playing hard to get, pretending not to be interested, making you jealous by flirting with other people, getting jealous when you flirt with other people. Seriously is all that, excuse my language, bullshit really necessary. Save yourself the time people and just get straight to the point!
Okay so finally you’re in this relationship that you had to jump through all kind of flaming hoops to get into. You’re thinking that all that hard graft was for a reason. Thinking that the hard part is over. Think again. That rollercoaster only just began!! I’m talking about both parties here, guys and girls are both problem creators!! Too be honest, we all just expect too much from one another. If you were dating someone who does everything the way you like it, and is exactly the way you want them to be, then you would need to do one of two things….. 1- wake up, or 2- stop dating robots and find a real person.
Let’s face it, there are always moments in any relationship good and bad. We stay with the people that make the good times good, and persevere through the bad because at the end of the day we love people for who they are, everything included. Of course there are limits, abuse, cheating etc…that nonsense is just unacceptable.
Relationships are complicated…..just saying!